Do I need to have a ceremony rehearsal?

The short answer is yes. The ceremony rehearsal truly matters more than people think.

Your wedding day is not the time for trial and error. The rehearsal is where you figure things out so the real thing feels smooth, calm, and intentional.

This is when your wedding party learns the order they’re walking in and how slow they actually need to walk to the music (hint: it’s usually slower than they think). It’s when everyone gets comfortable with where to stand, when to move, and yes — what to do with their hands once they’re up there supporting you.

Because let’s be honest… no one wants to watch their wedding video later and think, “Why does this look like organized chaos?”

Rehearsals are for working out the kinks. Maybe you planned for bridesmaids and groomsmen to walk separately, but once you see it, you realize it flows better in pairs. Maybe someone needs a reminder not to sprint down the aisle. Maybe the flower girl needs a little more guidance than you thought.

Trust me — I’ve seen it all. I’ve thought, “It’s a small wedding party, they’ll be fine without a rehearsal.” Or, “It’s just one little flower girl — she’ll figure it out.” Spoiler alert: that’s not a risk you want to take on your wedding day.

A rehearsal gives everyone confidence. It calms nerves. It sets expectations. And most importantly, it lets you focus on your vows and that “I do” moment instead of wondering what’s happening behind you.

Do yourself a favor and schedule the rehearsal. Your future, relaxed, aisle-walking self will absolutely thank you.